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今晚法莫道不消魂国vs南非。
亨利终于上场。
98年时我们高半夜凉初透考，他还是年轻帅小伙。
朋友说，
“好好欣赏亨利在世界杯的最后一场亮相吧。
98年我还刚高半夜凉初透考呢，
现在肥得低头都看不见小鸡鸡了。”

忽然觉得好悲情。

靓仔梅西加油！
要是这次韩国人赢了，他们可能会说马拉多纳的祖先也是韩国人～～
“现场直播：比赛刚开始，现在是梅西带球准备传到中场，只见朴智星一个天马流星铲直接从背后铲断了梅西小腿，伟大的阿根廷队崩溃了，朴智星哈哈大笑：老马你完了！韩国队胜利了！！！”
下半场57：37 韩国错失机会，我长吁一口气。

(21:03):
 又进了！！！！！
 太好了！！！！！
 3：1了！！！！！
(21:07):
 又进了！！！！
 牛逼牛逼！！！！！

我的激动之情溢于言表！这是本届到现在为止进球最多的一场赛。
老马完胜许丁茂！

acknowledgements

I am indebted to all the interviewees that I have come to know during this study, who shared with me their happiness and sadness, fun stories and witty tricks, which made the completion of this thesis possible. I am deeply grateful to the friends that opened the door of this research for me, especially Chen Xiaohang and Yeeshan Yang.

I want to express my greatest gratitude to my supervisor, Dr. Sik Ying Ho, whose stimulating suggestions and endless encouragement motivate me throughout this long journey. She is a remarkable scholar who always has great ideas and intellectual strength.

I am very glad that I have a whole team of good academic sisters who spark in me their insights. My sincere thanks go to Pei Yuxin, Wang Xiying, Carmen Ng, Hu Yiqian, Anna Ng and Yang Wen. They always stand besides me and share with me their passions to gender and sexuality studies.

I also would like to thank all the people in my department that helped me in my research work. They offered generous support and warm encouragement: Chen Honglin, Cheng Fucai, Bao Yan, Xiao Meng, Xu Jing, Esther Goh, Xiang Xiaoping, He Shanshan, Wang Yiyan, Zhong Xiaofang, Helen Goh, Pan Jiayan. They form an intellectual family that makes every family member’s journey no longer a lonely one.

Special thanks go to Stevi Jackson and Liu Jieyu. They offered creative suggestions to one of the chapters of this thesis when it appeared in their edited book East Asian Sexualities.

I would not have been able to start this research without the inspiration of my supervisor at the University of Bristol, Jackie West, who first introduced me O’Connell Davidson’s book that has been so important to my knowledge on prostitution. I also thank my supervisors at the LSE, Clare Hemmings and Henrietta Moore, who guided me through the very first part of this research.

I owe my deepest debts to my parents, especially my mother, who sustains me throughout and taught me how to be open-minded and optimistic even in the biggest difficulty, and who brought me pleasure and happiness in the last but most difficult part of my PhD journey.

HKU的各个学系学院开始联手进行四川灾后的协助工作，包括工程系，教育系，心理学系，医学院，社工系，我们组成一个大的团队，联合香港的非政府组织和各功能团体为灾区献出我们专业范围内力所能及的力量。
我们通过电邮和msn群进行即时联络，动手整理各地收集过来的危机心理干预和协助的资料，翻译成中文，提供给即将去前线的同事同学。我们正在建立网站，以便资料的上传和下载。北师大和我们合作，正在进行各项工作。北美，澳洲，欧洲各国的专家学者也以最快的速度翻译了一批资料提供给此次行动，而且也为今后的工作铺平了道路。
我感觉到大家的务实精神和高度的热情，大家都在以学者的方式和努力为灾区提供切实的帮助。
大家加油！

14点28分，我站在阳台上，耳边警笛汽笛防空警报汽车喇叭开始响起，所有的车停止行驶，对512四川地薄雾浓云愁永昼震遇难的人们表示最沉痛的哀悼。
我看见，大元帅府下了半旗；小区的阳台上占了很多人，低着头默哀；江湾桥上汽车停驶；路上行人驻足。
原来，当所有喇叭同时响起发出这样呜呜声响时，竟如此震撼人心，我的心随之震恸。
整个中国都沉浸在这样的声音和心情中吧。

我送上一朵雪白的菊花，愿逝者安息，到达那永无烦忧的彼岸。
我送上一段翠绿的丝带，愿生者坚强，早日步出阴影重建生活。

从此，结束痛苦吧，开始新生。